2 definitions by T-Roy

To catch somebody outdoors and cause bodily harm to them. Referenced from a 2016 Dr. Phil episode where a white teenager speaks street slang to the audience threatening them. " Cash me ousside, Howbow dah!"

This is the act of fingering or fondeling a girls vagina.
The word 'tend' is used because sometimes it can be a tedious act; Axe Wound describes the appearance of the vagina or gash if you will.