2 definitions by Stevinazo
When a cis-gendered, straight person attempts to explain, often incorrectly, the nuances of non-gendered language or non-heterosexuality to an LGBTQ+ person.
When a cis-gendered person "explains" something LGBTQ-related to an LGBTQ person, often in a condescending tone. It is also often presented in such a way that clearly belies it as a lesson they just ‘learned’ recently.
When a cis-gendered person "explains" something LGBTQ-related to an LGBTQ person, often in a condescending tone. It is also often presented in such a way that clearly belies it as a lesson they just ‘learned’ recently.
Example:
"Gurrrl, I went to a meeting at work today and my new boss cisplained that we are no longer using 'preferred’ pronouns."
"Gurrrl, I went to a meeting at work today and my new boss cisplained that we are no longer using 'preferred’ pronouns."
by Stevinazo January 31, 2021
in·gen·di·ar·y
/inˈjendēˌerē/
noun., The explosive assault of someone wanting you to define your gender, usually in a case where one is unwilling, unable, afraid, or incapable of having such a discussion. Akin to asking someone "Where are you from?"
adjective
(of a request or introduction mechanism) designed to highlight gender and use of gender pronouns, specifically on the unwilling or unable.
"incendiary request to name preferred gender pronouns"
synonyms: confrontational, overly inquisitive, accusatory, inflammatory, rabble-rousing, provocative, agitational, subversive, revolutionary, insurrectionary, insurrectionist;
"ingendiary rhetoric"
"her ingendiary speech provoked a non-binary riot"
antonyms: conciliatory
noun
an ingendiary device.
"an introduction loaded with ingendiaries"
a person who starts a confrontation, specifically in a gender context; a person who stirs up conflict.
"ingendiaries derailed the conference"
/inˈjendēˌerē/
noun., The explosive assault of someone wanting you to define your gender, usually in a case where one is unwilling, unable, afraid, or incapable of having such a discussion. Akin to asking someone "Where are you from?"
adjective
(of a request or introduction mechanism) designed to highlight gender and use of gender pronouns, specifically on the unwilling or unable.
"incendiary request to name preferred gender pronouns"
synonyms: confrontational, overly inquisitive, accusatory, inflammatory, rabble-rousing, provocative, agitational, subversive, revolutionary, insurrectionary, insurrectionist;
"ingendiary rhetoric"
"her ingendiary speech provoked a non-binary riot"
antonyms: conciliatory
noun
an ingendiary device.
"an introduction loaded with ingendiaries"
a person who starts a confrontation, specifically in a gender context; a person who stirs up conflict.
"ingendiaries derailed the conference"
As I sat in the meeting eagerly awaiting a discussion on race and bias, I was thrown an ingendiary to define myself using my preferred gender pronouns.
by Stevinazo September 16, 2019