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A person who is averse to the concept of being transgender, but who is not a bad person.
Tom violently attacks transgender people because he is a bad person and also a transphobe.
Jerry does not believe the story that some people are the opposite of their real gender, just because they say they are...but he doesn't treat them badly. He is a good person, so that makes him a good transphobe.
A person who doesn't believe the story that transgender people truly are the opposite gender of what they clearly are, is not automatically a bad person. But a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone who doesn't believe everything said by transgender people, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
If you want to pretend to be something you are not, go ahead. But if we say "I can see that you are lying", they doesn't give you the right to cancel us. We have a right to not agree with lies! As long as we are not attacking you, leave us alone.
Tom violently attacks transgender people because he is a bad person and also a transphobe.
Jerry does not believe the story that some people are the opposite of their real gender, just because they say they are...but he doesn't treat them badly. He is a good person, so that makes him a good transphobe.
A person who doesn't believe the story that transgender people truly are the opposite gender of what they clearly are, is not automatically a bad person. But a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone who doesn't believe everything said by transgender people, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
If you want to pretend to be something you are not, go ahead. But if we say "I can see that you are lying", they doesn't give you the right to cancel us. We have a right to not agree with lies! As long as we are not attacking you, leave us alone.
Jerry rolls his eyes when a man claims to be a woman, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good transphobe.
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Tom hates gays and does everything he can to prevent them from getting jobs and living their lives in peace. He is an extreme homophobe, and it would be reasonable to hate him. Jerry is disgusted by what gays do, but he doesn't try to take away the rights of gays. His friend George asked "what do you think about homosexuality?", and Jerry said "I find it disgusting". George replied "I disagree with you, but you have a right to your opinion", because he does not have homophobiaphobia. But Phil overheard, and he shouted "You monster! I'm going to 'out' you on social media, and boycott your family business until it goes bankrupt, so your family will lose their home, and I will make sure everyone treats you like garbage for the rest of your life!"
Phil has extreme homophobiaphobia.
Homophobiaphobes are zealots. They need to become more inclusive of cultural diversity! If a "homophobe" is leaving you alone, then leave him/her alone too. If you really need to, go after people like Tom, until they stop what they are doing, and then leave him alone after he stops. But don't harass people like Jerry at all. If you can do that, we can do the same for you. Then we'll have inclusion and peace.
But people with homophobiaphobia do not want that. They will only be satisfied with 100% destruction of anyone who disagrees with them in any way whatsoever.
Tom hates gays and does everything he can to prevent them from getting jobs and living their lives in peace. He is an extreme homophobe, and it would be reasonable to hate him. Jerry is disgusted by what gays do, but he doesn't try to take away the rights of gays. His friend George asked "what do you think about homosexuality?", and Jerry said "I find it disgusting". George replied "I disagree with you, but you have a right to your opinion", because he does not have homophobiaphobia. But Phil overheard, and he shouted "You monster! I'm going to 'out' you on social media, and boycott your family business until it goes bankrupt, so your family will lose their home, and I will make sure everyone treats you like garbage for the rest of your life!"
Phil has extreme homophobiaphobia.
Homophobiaphobes are zealots. They need to become more inclusive of cultural diversity! If a "homophobe" is leaving you alone, then leave him/her alone too. If you really need to, go after people like Tom, until they stop what they are doing, and then leave him alone after he stops. But don't harass people like Jerry at all. If you can do that, we can do the same for you. Then we'll have inclusion and peace.
But people with homophobiaphobia do not want that. They will only be satisfied with 100% destruction of anyone who disagrees with them in any way whatsoever.
by RealHonestDefinition April 1, 2023
Get the Homophobiaphobia mug.Tom violently attacks gays because he is a bad person and also a homophobe. Jerry is disgusted by gays, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good person, so that makes him a good homophobe. A person who is disgusted by gays is not automatically a bad person, but a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone whose thoughts and beliefs they disagree with, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
by RealHonestDefinition April 1, 2023
Get the Good homophobe mug.A form of sexism which promotes negative stereotypes or disparaging views about members of an entire gender. This can apply to sexism against women or against men.
Some sources provide a very limited definition of hostile sexism by claiming that it should only refer to sexism in which people who do not conform to traditional gender roles are viewed in a negative manner, with the goal of oppressing the targeted gender.
However, since hostility can take on many other forms, and since sexism has many goals, and since sexism can be targeted at any gender, it would be a very narrow-minded oversight to limit the definition of hostile sexism by applying it only to situations in which the sexist is disparaging members of the targeted gender specifically because of them not conforming to traditional gender roles, and/or because the sexist specifically wants to promote oppression.
Disparaging a person simply for being a member of a particular gender is always sexism, even if the sexist's motivation is not caused by their target not conforming to traditional gender roles. And it is clearly hostile to encourage others to view the targeted gender as inferior, even if oppression is not the stated intention. Therefore, all disparaging of an entire gender should be defined as hostile sexism, no matter what the stated motivation or goal is.
Some sources provide a very limited definition of hostile sexism by claiming that it should only refer to sexism in which people who do not conform to traditional gender roles are viewed in a negative manner, with the goal of oppressing the targeted gender.
However, since hostility can take on many other forms, and since sexism has many goals, and since sexism can be targeted at any gender, it would be a very narrow-minded oversight to limit the definition of hostile sexism by applying it only to situations in which the sexist is disparaging members of the targeted gender specifically because of them not conforming to traditional gender roles, and/or because the sexist specifically wants to promote oppression.
Disparaging a person simply for being a member of a particular gender is always sexism, even if the sexist's motivation is not caused by their target not conforming to traditional gender roles. And it is clearly hostile to encourage others to view the targeted gender as inferior, even if oppression is not the stated intention. Therefore, all disparaging of an entire gender should be defined as hostile sexism, no matter what the stated motivation or goal is.
A female talk show host stated that women are superior, and she lectured that all leaders should be women, and then she called for a campaign to make it happen. Her male guest stated that women are trying to oppress men, and that there are already enough women leaders. It is baffling that only the guest was accused of hostile sexism, and not the host.
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That dhinna seemed to be extremely cute, sweet, warm, caring and loveable...but then she left me and claimed she was forced by her family to leave me. She kept saying things to give me hope that we would get back together some day, but after years of painful waiting, she finally admitted that she had never actually loved me. Thanks for teaching me that life is pointless and that nothing beautiful is actually real. Because of you, I now look forward to life ending. You're the very definition of a dhinna.
by RealHonestDefinition June 25, 2022
Get the Dhinna mug.Deadnaming is the act of referring to a person by the name given by their parents, instead of by the name they chose for themselves later in life. It is considered by some to be an evil insult, and considered by others as a simple reference to who someone really is.
"If you grew up with Marilyn Monroe, and you call her Norma Jean, you are deadnaming her. Stop it, you evil monster!"
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"I demand that you call her Caitlyn from now on."
"But his name is Bruce. I would feel guilty if I ignored my conscience by purposely perpetuating a lie. I don't want to force myself to use a stage name as if it was real, or to pretend that someone is someone other than who they really are. If it upsets you when I use his real name or pronoun, then I will do my best to respect his feelings, and the feelings of others with your beliefs, by avoiding referring to him by EITHER name. And I will refer to him as 'they/them' instead of 'he/him'...but I refuse to refer to him as 'she/her'. I am doing my best to show respect for his feelings and yours, and I ask that you also respect MY feelings by not trying to force me to lie, and that you please stop trying to police my thoughts and beliefs with threats of cancellation."
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"I demand that you call her Caitlyn from now on."
"But his name is Bruce. I would feel guilty if I ignored my conscience by purposely perpetuating a lie. I don't want to force myself to use a stage name as if it was real, or to pretend that someone is someone other than who they really are. If it upsets you when I use his real name or pronoun, then I will do my best to respect his feelings, and the feelings of others with your beliefs, by avoiding referring to him by EITHER name. And I will refer to him as 'they/them' instead of 'he/him'...but I refuse to refer to him as 'she/her'. I am doing my best to show respect for his feelings and yours, and I ask that you also respect MY feelings by not trying to force me to lie, and that you please stop trying to police my thoughts and beliefs with threats of cancellation."
by RealHonestDefinition June 25, 2022
Get the Deadnaming mug.Deadnaming is the act of referring to a person by the name given by their parents, instead of by the name they chose for themselves later in life. It is considered by some to be an evil insult, and considered by others as a simple reference to who someone really is.
"If you grew up with Marilyn Monroe, and you call her Norma Jean, you are deadnaming her. Stop it, you evil monster!"
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"I demand that you call her Caitlyn from now on."
"But his name is Bruce. I would feel guilty if I ignored my conscience by purposely perpetuating a lie. I don't want to force myself to use a stage name as if it was real, or to pretend that someone is someone other than who they really are. If it upsets you when I use his real name or pronoun, then I will do my best to respect his feelings, and the feelings of others with your beliefs, by avoiding referring to him by EITHER name. And I will refer to him as "they/them" instead of "he/him"...but I refuse to refer to him as "she/her". I am doing my best to show respect to his feelings and yours, and I ask that you also respect MY feelings by not trying to force me to lie, and that you please stop trying to police my thoughts and beliefs with threats of cancellation."
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"I demand that you call her Caitlyn from now on."
"But his name is Bruce. I would feel guilty if I ignored my conscience by purposely perpetuating a lie. I don't want to force myself to use a stage name as if it was real, or to pretend that someone is someone other than who they really are. If it upsets you when I use his real name or pronoun, then I will do my best to respect his feelings, and the feelings of others with your beliefs, by avoiding referring to him by EITHER name. And I will refer to him as "they/them" instead of "he/him"...but I refuse to refer to him as "she/her". I am doing my best to show respect to his feelings and yours, and I ask that you also respect MY feelings by not trying to force me to lie, and that you please stop trying to police my thoughts and beliefs with threats of cancellation."
by RealHonestDefinition June 25, 2022
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