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Definitions by Let's have fun in the sun

you've ruined me 

The feeling after an orgasm when the oxytocin makes everything slow down and a nap would be nice. Wanting to just relax in the bliss and not take on any other activity. Feeling "Ruined" yet liking that way. From the lyrics by Norah Jones - You've Ruined Me - "You've ruined me now Though I liked it now I'm ruined"
Oh, that was so good! You've ruined me and I need a moment or maybe a nap.

oxytoasted 

How it feels after a big dose of oxytocin, beyond the bliss, recovering from the euphoric high. Sometimes you feel "ruined" yet in a great way and a nap or sleep often follows.
Oh, yeah, that was nice! So nice, I am a bit oxytoasted and can't get out of bed. Gonna nap.

xray memories 

The ability to see things in real life because the memories are so strong. Seems to also work when one has a strong spacial awareness.
On occasion, I can look over my left shoulder and with xray memories, I can see my partner sitting at her desk - in the buff - and she is more than 2 miles away.
The "aura" or glow after a great orgasm!
After the great round of sex, we basked in our "ohra" and even took a nap.

Head for head

The most pleasurable benefit of giving one's partner a head massage and getting oral sex in return.
I often start giving a simple head massage and it turns into a full blown head for head massage exchange. Give a little, get a little.
When a girl wets her fingers down her pants and offers her partner a sniff.
She prefumed what was to come while we were out on a date.