De_mux's definitions

born-again virgin

Someone who lost their virginity early in life but has since gone so long without sex that the period of sexual inactivity exceeds the time between their birth and their first sexual experience. Used humorously or philosophically, not to imply literal virginity.

ost my v-card at 18, but I’ve been sex-free since 2007 — I’m basically a born-again virgin (temporal) now.”

by De_mux February 4, 2026

Gatosexual

Gatosexual describes someone who experiences normal sexual attraction and desire (i.e. is allosexual), but whose sexual interest does not translate into pursuit or action unless certain conditions are met. These conditions typically include attraction, basic respect, and a sense that interest is mutual. Random hookups, transactional sex, or emotional guesswork feel wrong or emotionally costly, so desire remains internal unless the “gate” is opened. During periods where the gate remains closed, sexual desire is often expressed through fantasy or imagination, which serves as a safe, low-cost outlet rather than a substitute for real intimacy.

“I’m gatosexual — I want sex, I have fantasies, but I don’t chase unless it’s clearly mutual.”

by De_mux February 4, 2026