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Darling,u got 2 let mino
Should i stay or should i go?
If u say that u r mine
ill b here til end of time
Should i stay or should i go?
If u say that u r mine
ill b here til end of time
So u gotta lmk:
Should I stay or should i go now?
If I go,there will b trouble
And if I stay,itll b double
So comeon& lmk
3:08 -The Clash
Should I stay or should i go now?
If I go,there will b trouble
And if I stay,itll b double
So comeon& lmk
3:08 -The Clash
by Bobbert665 January 23, 2025
Get the 3:08 mug."N@rcs arent just bad at accountibility,
theyre allergic 2 it.
The second that u say "hey,that hurt me",
IT turns into "n0,";
"u misunderstood",
"ure being 2 sensitive",
"ur bringing up the past",
"ur attakking me",
"ur tone is bad".
Notice how the conversation is NVR focused on what THEY did & how THEY hurt u.
Bc holding themselves accountable ,would require them 2 sit w/ dat discomfort.
And they would rather rewrite reality,than feel that shame for 5 secs.
& that is why U end up so exhausted & disoriented & confused,
after talking 2 a nrc.
Not bc U r doing it wrong, but bc ur trying 2 resolve something,
w/ some1 whose entire nervous system is built,
2 avoid responsibility.
And evry time u bring up a concern,their body hears "d4ng3r!1! ur hurt!ng my egg-o!"
& bc their self is wired around selfprotexion,& NOT selfreflection,
they dont lean in - they deflect,they minimise - they flip it back on U.
They shut down,or expl0de 💥
theyre allergic 2 it.
The second that u say "hey,that hurt me",
IT turns into "n0,";
"u misunderstood",
"ure being 2 sensitive",
"ur bringing up the past",
"ur attakking me",
"ur tone is bad".
Notice how the conversation is NVR focused on what THEY did & how THEY hurt u.
Bc holding themselves accountable ,would require them 2 sit w/ dat discomfort.
And they would rather rewrite reality,than feel that shame for 5 secs.
& that is why U end up so exhausted & disoriented & confused,
after talking 2 a nrc.
Not bc U r doing it wrong, but bc ur trying 2 resolve something,
w/ some1 whose entire nervous system is built,
2 avoid responsibility.
And evry time u bring up a concern,their body hears "d4ng3r!1! ur hurt!ng my egg-o!"
& bc their self is wired around selfprotexion,& NOT selfreflection,
they dont lean in - they deflect,they minimise - they flip it back on U.
They shut down,or expl0de 💥
Which means U end up doing all the emotional labour;
Thinking harder,xplaining better,softening ur tone, choosing ur words btr.
Bc ur trying 2 get relief,from somebdy who only offers res!stance.
And that kind of loop doesnt lead 2 resolution.
It leads 2 burnout.
So if evry attempt at honesty,or communication
turns in2 u feeling blamed,confused,like theres chaos in the air,
that is not a communication issue;
It's accountability avoidance.
& ^that explains evrythin."
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Any of their vids,will help u in the long run - pinky prom!se ☝
Pls,look them up. 4 ur own sake. Show me u did & make it crystal🔮 clr.
I gotchu,i hear ya just fine. Always have, from day 1.
But something changed, recently. Fix that 🔧🔨
U gta b more clear u hear metoo - ya? Im here 4 U.
🍍,🍌,🐎 idk - u do u.
Like my l8est post,sumthing! (isok.)
Gme a sign - pls, sumthin new. Surpr!se me 🎊 446
Thinking harder,xplaining better,softening ur tone, choosing ur words btr.
Bc ur trying 2 get relief,from somebdy who only offers res!stance.
And that kind of loop doesnt lead 2 resolution.
It leads 2 burnout.
So if evry attempt at honesty,or communication
turns in2 u feeling blamed,confused,like theres chaos in the air,
that is not a communication issue;
It's accountability avoidance.
& ^that explains evrythin."
-----
Src: "beyondthebruise" on IG/TKTK etc.
Any of their vids,will help u in the long run - pinky prom!se ☝
Pls,look them up. 4 ur own sake. Show me u did & make it crystal🔮 clr.
I gotchu,i hear ya just fine. Always have, from day 1.
But something changed, recently. Fix that 🔧🔨
U gta b more clear u hear metoo - ya? Im here 4 U.
🍍,🍌,🐎 idk - u do u.
Like my l8est post,sumthing! (isok.)
Gme a sign - pls, sumthin new. Surpr!se me 🎊 446
by Bobbert665 February 19, 2026
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