Consentodore

"Consentodore" is a leadership title that plays off the naval title Commodore. It can be used by anyone of any gender regardless of naval affiliation, who is focused on enforcing and/or supporting consent within the group the leader leads/rules/commands/etc. Sometimes it is awarded as a nickname, sometimes it is chosen, sometimes it is the name of a role.
I am a Consentodore because supporting informed consent in my kink community is important to me.
by Blamtastical March 24, 2020
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binarist

This is an adjective used to indicate anything which acts as if binary genders are superior, erases people whose genders exist outside of the "binary" of men and women, and so on. The noun form is binarism. Binarism is a specific form of transphobia, which means it is a form of sexism. Due to the prevalence of additional genders in many nonwhite cultures, binarism can also be an expression of racism.
Native Hawaiians have a third gender called "Māhū" and their cultural genders are a lot more fluid than general mainland American culture. White people rejecting the existence of Māhū individuals is not only binarist, it is also a racist extension of the ongoing attempts to squash indigenous cultures.
by Blamtastical September 12, 2019
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segender

Similar to agender (which means not having a gender), segender is a term that can be used by anyone in any culture to indicate that the person using it does not have any of the genders defined in that person's own culture. Someone who is segender may also be agender if agender is not recognized in that person's culture.

In the United States of America, this would be someone whose gender is not male, female, or any of the genders recognized in the category known as "nonbinary" in those regions where "nonbinary" is recognized.

In India, this would be someone who is not male, female, hijra, or any of the subsets (such as aravanis).

As with any gender term, in many cultures it is impossible to know if someone is segender unless the person tells you.

The accent is on the first syllable, which the root word "se" from Latin meaning "apart." Pronounce it like you would segway, seclusion, secure.
I have never heard of a word from my culture that really describes my gender, so I just go with segender.
by Blamtastical October 12, 2017
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strip tag

Noun; A nudity-inspired version of the children's game "tag."

Rules:
The person who is "it" strips naked and begins running around tagging people. When someone else gets tagged, they have to remove one article of clothing. When someone becomes fully unclothed, that person is also "it" and helps tag the remaining players. The last person with clothing left on wins.

Variations:
1.) Start off with more than one person who is "it" as otherwise the "it" person can get too tired too quickly.
2.) While stripping an article of clothing, that person is "safe" from immediately being tagged again.
3.) If someone who is "it" tags someone for their last article of clothing, "it" can put that article on and switch sides.
Let's go play strip tag at my place. I've got a huge back yard.
by Blamtastical September 20, 2014
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homologism

n - a cognitive dysfunction which constitutes assuming that all people in one's own group think the same way one does about given/related topics
"Homologism is rampant in my church. Everybody there assumes that you agree with waiting until marriage to have sex, even though most people won't actually care if you do it."

"I'm so tired of the way my roommate keeps homologising me. Yes, we are both gay, but that doesn't mean I agree with her that bisexual people are just afraid to come all the way out of the closet. Bisexuality is a real thing."
by Blamtastical April 22, 2015
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gender equist

A person who supports (and may advocate for) the equal rights of people of all genders. This may be a political or social philosophy, or both.
Susan is a gender equist. She is part of a team advocating to allow men to train as pointe ballerinas.
by Blamtastical July 06, 2014
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creosapiosexual

One who finds creative intelligence the most sexually attractive feature.

Sometimes this also means gender and other physical manifestations play little or no role in the person's attractions.
Alexandria still can't tell if her classmate Sandy is a boy or a girl, but as a creosapiosexual she is highly attracted to the creative, intelligent personality of her peer. She is planning to ask Sandy out this weekend to find out.
by Blamtastical February 25, 2010
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