A passive top may prefer the bottom to be astride him and/ or in control of the pace of things. Importantly, the top isn't always in control of the action. The terms active/passive often have to do with how power and control are managed - on many levels - in a particular sexual interaction

The only character in Super Smash Bros. Ultimate that has the slowest fucking aerials in the game, grab range of a newborn, and a 1 in 8 chance to be a top tier.
"Hey who do you play in Smash?"
"Oh, the Hero From Dragon Quest."
"Uhhhhh, what other games do you have?"
"Oh, the Hero From Dragon Quest."
"Uhhhhh, what other games do you have?"
