the tendency (usually attributed to lesbians) to become the same person. They start wearing the same outfits, doing everything together, essentially becoming the same person at the horror and disgust of their friends.
Alice: Have you seen Dana and Tanya, they are wearing the same outfit in similar colors.
Shane: must be the urge to merge.
Shane: must be the urge to merge.
by shaazaaam December 19, 2008
the term used in the gay community for the presumed tendency lesbians have of quickly moving together after dating for a short period of time. See U-haul lesbian.
Although not unique to lesbian couples, this behavior is stereotypically attributed to lesbians.
The comedian Lea DeLaria joked:
Q: What does a lesbian bring on the second date?
A: A U-haul.
Although not unique to lesbian couples, this behavior is stereotypically attributed to lesbians.
The comedian Lea DeLaria joked:
Q: What does a lesbian bring on the second date?
A: A U-haul.
by Johanna Karlsson June 16, 2008
by lesbojo March 21, 2010
by Ignatz April 12, 2008