the most minimal form of an invitation, but not quite reaching the
level of an unvite. used to make an offer, while indicating that
ones presence is not mutally desired. frequently used by a couple to a potential third
wheel. commonly phrased by using "if you want."
me:
kim and i are going to the
bar around
ten. you can come too, if you want.
you: dude, that was such an undervite.