A surrofemme is a feminine gay male, with genuinely femme voice, emotions, and nurturing attributes that normally, ‘
straight’ men and often married men are extremely attracted to over that of their moody and or
butch real-woman wives. A surrofemme is stalked upon by lifelong ‘
straight’ men in bars, craigslist, etc., and are extremely drawn to the ‘genuine feminine’ aspects, attributes, and loving intimate nature of this type of gay femme person. A surrofemme is often not transgender looking, but very feminine in speech and attitude, and feminine-starved
straight & married men are highly drawn to such peoples. The term refers to a ‘surrogate femme’, and is a highly prized possession of the unhappy married straight male who is bereft of desired feminine personas in his life.
Bradley, married for 20 years, with 3 children, unhappy with his moody butch
wife finally found true
happiness with a gay male surrofemme. Surrofemmes are overloaded with
straight married men’s emails who want to hang with them and be intimate, or even just talk with a genuine feminine personality, regardless that said person is a gay male. Surrofemme gay males are feminine personas to whom straights and married men are drawn, due to rapidly declining genuine femininity in the real world.