Jingwei's are nice and caring. They get mad at reasons, usually are good wives but don't do the basic things for you. Buy millions of shoes for her daughter when she's a baby (jk) probs not, but that's what my mom did her name Jingwei. She tells you she's not going to do something that you really want but does it eventually. When she finds out water can make you skinny she drinks gallons of water a day.
You: Wow, that mom has a big water bottle.
Me: Oh ya, that's my mom, Jingwei!
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)