|1.||ham or eggs|
how much you are commited to something.
ham is a part of the meal, and is commited to it.
eggs is not necessarily included. thus it is on the fence.
made popular by an episode of grey's anatomy.
girl - "do you want to be with me or not?"
boy - "sometimes yes. im not sure. dont pressure me."
girl - "listen, its simple. are you ham or eggs."