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futchsex (-0.651)
a lesbian who has feminine looks but masculine dress and/or style. femme + butch = futch
dani from a shot at love with tila tequila is futch.
by sydbarrettsaves November 26, 2007
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Futchsex (-0.502)
A lesbian, dyke or other variety of queer woman who possesses or displays qualities and identifiers of both butch and femme. (noun)

Futch (adjective) describes:
a) a non-standard display of female masculinity, which contains elements of the feminine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).
b) a non-standard display of queer femininity, containing elements of the masculine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).

If butch/femme is a spectrum, a futch may be found at any or all of the points in between.

A futch presentation may occasionally be ephemeral, caused by the migration of an woman's queer self-identity, but is much more likely to be ongoing and deliberate; reflecting an individual's own position of comfort on the queer gender presentation scale.

Tila Tequila's date, Dani Campbell, a lesbian firefighter from Florida, claims she invented the word "futch" to describe herself as being part butch, part femme. However, a spot of research will reveal that the word has been in moderate usage in the dyke community since at least 1990. Dani would have had to be a very inventive little futch at 11 to be the word's progenitor.

Sometimes futch sighting is a false positive, as in the case of many rural women who make the gaydar spang wildly, but who are merely hetero women who portray common lesbian markers, such as speaking firmly, gesturing strongly, taking no nonsense, and using no botox. While wearing boots.
As I was getting ready for my date with the new girl, I had a hard time deciding whether to put on my suit and tie or my heels and dress. Good thing she likes a futch, because it doesn't matter which I pick.
by Miselaineous October 19, 2009
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Futchsex (-0.783)
Not exactly feminine... but not exactly butch (in terms of being a lesbian.)
Dani from A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila is futch.
by ---yeah December 18, 2007
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futchsex (-0.674)
a butch who acts feminine, as opposed to being dominit one in a lesbian reletionship.
she's such a futch, stop actin so girly.
by laydee luvher December 28, 2004
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Futchsex (-0.515)
A lesbian who in outwardly appearance dresses like or acts like a femme but has the mentality or mindset of a butch
She is such a futch cause she dresses like a girl but thinks like a man
by BuffChick510 December 22, 2008
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futchsex (-0.101)
Where the Futch is he?
by GM April 30, 2004
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futchname (-0.349)
the sweetest guy in the world who is like a brother to me and i also use to live close to him but now i moved but i still will never forget my big brother futcharoo!!!
damn...look at futch smoke that dutch
by kt mack March 11, 2005
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