usually refers to someone who is a big douche. A "The Raj" always needs to be in control.
Person 1 : why did we all have to meet here?
Peson 2 : because The Raj said so.
Person 1 : of course The Raj said so.
While having sex, immediately after ejaculation the man pulls off the condom and throws it down in front of himself while exclaiming "That's it!". He then lays down for sleep.
I pulled The Raj on my girlfriend last night. I woke up with a black eye.