Sara doesn't like any of her food options and she won't stop complaining. David asked "Why don't you just pick something to eat, all of the choices are good, you just love to permahate."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.