When a guy jerks another guy off by moving the guy's arm while he technically you hold your own dick. A technique created so guys can jerk each other off without feeling gay.
I'm not gay! I only gave him a dutch rudder, it's not like I touched his dick.
by gcave and pmartin November 07, 2008
When a man masturbates, and another person grabs his arm and makes him do the motion. It's sort of like a cross between masturbation and a handjob. He is still holding on, but the other person is still moving your arm.
She gave him a dutch rudder last night.
by Some Crate May 10, 2006