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Tanbi is no longer written. Tanbi is a word meaning 'the worship and pursuit of beauty'. It was used to describe the early male/male stories that mainly ran in June. June was heavily influenced by a well-known author and literary critic who used multiple pen names, so many of the stories utilized a high literary style. These stories came to be called tanbi - stories written for beauty and pursuit of beauty only. Tanbi style includes flowery language and uncommon kanji/words, which makes it a difficult read for foreigners.

The tanbi style is mainly a thing of the past. It has been replaced by BL stories - mass written, easy-to-read stories. Even authors known for their tanbi works like Yoshihara Rieko (Ai no Kusabi) now write mainstream BL and no longer use tanbi style. It's probably because tanbi, like its name, pursues beauty both in language and storyline. It's not simple and fast-paced like the modern BL stories.

Tanbi is like shounen ai, no longer written but important in the evolution of modern BL.

Tanbi sometimes is used interchangeably with boys' love by bookstores, but that's an old usage.
Ai no Kusabi was lovely.
tanbi by Bunneh February 1, 2004
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Tabitha is an all around a good, wholesome person.

She will take care of anyone who is considered to be a friend. However that friendship is a very select club.

She has a unique way at looking at things that would come in very handy in problematic issues.

She has a great beauty both inside and out even though she does not see it sometimes.

She has a great sense of Intuition and does not rely on what other people say. But initial intuition can sometimes turn on her. ie relationships.

Her comedy can be innocent at times that any person can relate to or be very dark and her select friends can only truely appreciate it.

Her laughter is contagious even when she doesnt really mean it.

If you do get on her bad side then watch out. She can be very hateful and can hold a grudge against you for years afterwards.

However she will never be mean on the innocent banter you may have with her.

Just like the select number of friends she has she also has a select number of enemies that wouldnt dare to go near her if they value their own life.

She has a heart of gold. Your problems are her problems and that can also be her downfall.

She is the first person to pick you up when you fall and the last person to bring you down.

If you have a TABITHA in your life, do not put her as a side friend. You would be sorely denying a great person in your life.
Tabitha was there when I left my boyfriend and helped me through it.
Tabitha by Unholyturduckin163 October 20, 2019
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She’s the most romantic and adorable woman. Her beautiful eyes and smile brighten everyone’s day. She will make you fall for her and you’ll never be able to let her go. She has the best taste in men and she is very caring and kind. She will bring the best out of you and will make you feel like your the best.
Boy: omg I like this girl
Girl: what’s her name ?
Boy: Her name is Tabina
Girl: OMG YOU NEED TO KEEP HER

Boy: why ?
Girl: Because she’s probably the best girl out there
Boy: Ok
Tabina by coolperson1000 November 4, 2020

Tanairis 

Amazing. She is tougher than she looks. A self-dependant woman. She is smart, funny, and more beautiful than she gives herself credit for. She will make you wonder why there aren't more people like her in the world and what took you so long to find her.
We all look for a tanairis in our life.
Tanairis by Cuban guy August 18, 2011

Tanaisha 

A Jamaican , Puerto Rican girl with a big booty who has a smart ass mouth and bad temper, She is goofy and clumsy and very emotional, she is very shy when it comes to meeting new people ,and don't be a dumbass around her she will cut your ass in 2.5 seconds
You need a Tanaisha in your life
Tanaisha by 1smart ass May 25, 2015
no. just no. never. hiori legit likes no one. go slit.
person 1: i love tabiori!!
person 2: No you dont. hiori shows no signs of romantic love for anyone in any interactions. and Karasu aint gay or whateva. Shut up nd go get a life fag. any hiori ship jus isnt real. tabiori aint good.
tabiori by shidouryuseis September 23, 2023
Is a Really beautiful girl. So beautiful YoU have a crUsh on her. Even when she is sad, she will aways smile.
Tabitha is back in class.Yeah she is a tabitha
Tabitha by randomnonamer February 6, 2019
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