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During a relationship/sex, there are two types of people. "Dominant" and "Submissive". The dominant is the one on top, the one calling the shots, the one with the whip, etc. The submissive is the one who is on bottom. The one who yells "F*ck me!" A submissive dominant is the one who calls the shots, but is on the bottom.
Bro #1. "I'm all shook up from last night"
Bro #2. "What happened bro?"
Bro #1. I was with my bae f*cking and I was on top, then she gave me this evil grin and whispered "f*ck me, slave."
Bro #2. DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN!!!!! Submissive dominant, eh?!
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by Smileysimle May 29, 2017
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A Gay male who is bottom but also enjoys being dominant with guys in relation to bondage and likes to tie guys up and use them with toys before they get fucked.

Usually prefers giving blowjobsnot receiving them acting like the normal bottom guy unless it’s bondage or toys related.

Typically taken advantage of by straight men.
I topped a guy the other night but before he would allow me I had to be tied up and have toys used on me first.

He doesn’t like getting blowjobs he’s a bottom but he loves being dominant with bondage and toys.

He’s a submissive dominant he likes being bottom but with bondage and toys he likes using guys.
by Submissive Dominant Gay Guy August 13, 2018
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