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sodjo |säjō|
noun

Originates from the abbreviation of misogynist. However differs from misogyny by implying a frustration towards women’s irrationality and emotional decision-making rather than hatred of the sex in general.

Typifies single, moderately successful males in their 20s and 30s who were raised to value equal rights for women but feel burdened by marriage and domestic responsibilities. Girlfriends are substituted with recreational activities considered immature i.e. gaming, surfing, skateboarding etc. Typically a sodjo will objectify females, rating them harshly on looks. Sodjos will have few female friends and often live in wolfpacks with other males. Resulting sexual frustration is alleviated by frequent use of pornography, strippers and occasional prostitutes.

Shares traits with "man-child" and "pre adult"outlined in the book Manning Up by Kay Hymowitz where she argues that the gains of the feminist revolution have had a dramatic, unanticipated effect on the current generation of young men. Traditional roles of family man and provider have been turned upside down as “pre-adult” men, stuck between adolescence and “real” adulthood, find themselves lost in a world where women make more money, are more educated, and are less likely to want to settle down and build a family. Their old scripts are gone, and young men find themselves adrift. Unlike women, they have no biological clock telling them it’s time to grow up.
Did you hear that song "Show Me Your Genitals" by Jon Lajoie? Man that guy is a sodjo!

Hey, you want to come to to the mall for a sodj?
sodjo by sodjo May 13, 2013
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The father of the nonaffluent character, Han Solo. Sojo is played by the illustrious Sean Connery, in this captivating roll.
HAN SOJO!! THATS HIS DAD!
Han Sojo by 100% Nicker August 4, 2018
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Irreconcilable Sodomy 

When a guy and girl try anal for the first time and it hurts so bad that she never lets him penetrate her backdoor again.
When I put in she screamed and wouldn't let me try ever again, it was irreconcilable sodomy.

Sodomephius 

Bro 1: Dude I really want to stick it in my girl's bum tonight, but she's been really hesitant with that.

Bro 2: You better start praying to Sodomephius ASAP.
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Sodomy Pie 

When a man or woman's anal cavity is used as a pie crust. Usually being held open with a clamp of some sort, the cavity is kept wide and ingredients that go in a pie go into the hole.
Bruno was really kinky last night, he opened me up and made me into a sodomy pie!
Sodomy Pie by Seamypick February 11, 2015
Derived from sodomites, the technical term for homosexuals in the bible.

Said when a statement or action might seem homosexual, but in reality is not.
Dude his ass is so tight!!

You forgot to say (no sodo)
no sodo by tyga from the 6 July 12, 2016
Soyjoy is the momentary europhoria felt by a soyboy when he has his routine injection of soy into his ass with a butt plunger.

Soyjoy is also the feeling a soyboy gets when he is gifted a nintendo switch from his wife for accepting her new boyfriend into the family.
Oh man, I can't hide the soyjoy that I am feeling after my recent top up.
Ahh son, look at this old family portrait of mine, you can just see the soyjoy on my face after I got that nintendo switch from your mother and real dad
soyjoy by jayperz March 11, 2018
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