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skinfolk 

Someone who is of your own race or skin colour but not your family or friends , probably not someone you even like
All my skinfolk are not my kinfolk
skinfolk by Deebaby January 18, 2017

Skinfiltrator

A term used to refer to an individual who is circumcised but claims themselves not to be. This choice may be influenced by personal beliefs, psychological factors, or a desire to establish a connection with cultural or social groups.
Daniel isn't invited to this week's foreskin tug-of-war; turns out, he's a skinfiltrator.

Alex is a skinfiltrator; he's circumcised but still managed to get into Foreskin Gaming.
Skinfiltrator by 4SKINNING June 28, 2023

Not all skinfolk are kinfolk

“Not all skinfolk are kinfolk” is a proverb, mainly used in Black American communities and now spreading to Black Western communities (including the UK).

It means:
Just because someone shares your race, background, or outward identity doesn’t mean they share your values, loyalty, or have your best interests at heart. Shared appearance is not the same as shared principles.

Put plainly:
Skinfolk = people who look like you or come from the same group

Kinfolk = people who truly have your back (like family in values, actions, and loyalty)

At its core, the proverb promotes discernment, judge people by how they act, not just who they appear to be.

How it gets abused:

Silencing disagreement:

Used against anyone who steps out of line

“You disagree? Then you’re not kinfolk.”

This shuts down honest debate by questioning loyalty instead of addressing ideas.

Gatekeeping identity:

Used to decide who is “authentic enough”

“You don’t think like us, so you’re not one of us.”

This turns community into a test rather than something genuinely lived.

Enforcing groupthink:

Pressures people to conform to one viewpoint. Independent thinking gets labelled betrayal—this isn’t unity, it’s control.

Personal attacks:

Instead of addressing arguments, it targets the person. “You’re not kinfolk” becomes a way to dismiss them entirely.

Excusing bad behaviour:

Wrongdoing is overlooked if it’s from “kinfolk” but condemned in outsiders, creating double standards.
“Don’t assume loyalty just because someone looks like you—, not all skinfolk are kinfolk.”
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
Word of the Day on September 23, 2026

murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
Word of the Day on September 22, 2026
In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
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