A sfenist is a person (usually
female, but can be a male), who has the biological and genetic ability to have sexual relations, but is unable (or has a strong repulsion) to have sex, because of a violent past. Sfenists are born like every
people, but at some point, a violent incident (more usual sexual abuse, like a
rape or child abuse) affected them beyond recovery.
Sfenists are
hard to distinguish from other
people. They act like everyone, even if they might have some personality problems after the incident that made them sfenists. Some have a tendency to isolate themselves, others can be independent and always willing to take initiative. Usually, they are opened and communicative like every other person.
Depending on their past trauma, they try to avoid certain situations: a crowded beach (where
people are almost naked, if they were naked during the incident), a crowded bus in
summer (if people sweat make them remember the sweat of their aggressor) or
men with strong temper. Also, sfenists try to avoid being touched in certain areas (for example at their neck if the aggressor held a knife there).
Sfenist girls are attractive to guys, but there is almost no way one can get to bed with them.
That girl is
hot! How can I get to know her?
You won't. No
guy could take her to bed, ever.
Why not? Is she sworn to be a
virgin?
No. She is a sfenist.
