A giant party which could or could not include alcohol, but in which every underage individual is extremely inebriated and takes part in getting with randos (random, often unattractive drunk girls) and then does not speak to them ever again. Many of these rando-fests take place at elite private school dances, such as Brearly, Horace Mann, and many others.

When you eat dirt for the first time and leave your family to build a shack in the woods