This is a phrase commonly used to describe something said during a conversation that can't be logically linked to anything that's already been said. It's a combo of "random" and "out of the blue" or "out of left field."
Sam: Xbox is pretty much the best thing ever invented!
Jake: You know what sucks? Getting acne on your ears.
Sam: Whoa. That was out of the random.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.