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A lesbian who identifies most with he/him pronouns. Pronouns do NOT equal gender, and lesbians who use he/him pronouns are not men. Furthermore, he/him lesbians are not all non-binary, and can still be women and use he/him pronouns
He/him lesbians experience of gender often stems from having a disconnect to womanhood, for example, compulsory heterosexuality.
Person 1: I identify as a he/him lesbian.
Person 2: Okay, you're valid because pronouns to not equal gender and the experience of lesbianism is not universally the same.
by limepie May 10, 2020
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1. noun. It is the sudden feeling of an inexplicable joy one gets when something romantic or idealistic occurs.

When kilig, one may experience the following:

*butterflies in one's stomach
*heart melting
*shivers down one's spine
*irrepressible noises from one's mouth
*uncontrollable smiling
*an inner conflict between hope of something wished for and reality

Kilig may also be defined as that mountain top, floating, on cloud nine, invincible, i-could-keep-smiling, heart aching goodness and feeling which overpowers the mind's ability to think straight, act straight, breathe properly and articulate thoughts into a single comprehensible sentence.
KILIGS much?? ^_^
by mis2n.yoo June 07, 2011
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A lesbian who uses he/him pronouns because they are most comfortable with those pronouns.
He/Him lesbians should totally be respected or you're a lesphobe!
by EbiManami April 21, 2019
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He/him lesbians refer to lesbians who use he/him pronouns despite the two categories being conflicting of one another.

Many people use examples of historical he/him lesbians to validate their identity, however they adapt and change the historic context to their convenience. For example; many claim he/him lesbians used male pronouns because they felt detached from their womanhood. However, the historical use of male pronouns amongst lesbians was STRICTLY for safety, so they could pass as a male to avoid lesbophobia during a highly
homophobic time.
person a) β€œhe/him lesbians are harmful as they invalidate both lesbians and trans men.”

person b) β€œperiod!”
by dykepatrol January 01, 2021
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a straight guy who wants to feel special
some guy: i only like girls
person: so you're het?
some guy: actually i am a he/him lesbian !!!! 😑😑😑
by aarghh c coom arghh September 28, 2020
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