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Femshaming 

Portemanteau of feminist and shaming. Action of using shaming tactics by a feminist, meant to play on a man's insecurities and shut down debate. They are meant to elicit sympathy for women and to demonize men who ask hard questions. Feminist shaming tactics are attack toward the person instead of making arguments on the subject. They usually use the word manplaining, their own portmanteau for man and explaining, in their tactics to bring shame.
Feminist "women are paid 77 cents for every mans dollar"

A man: "It might be possible in a few workplaces that women are underpaid, but every serious study showed that there more factors than just gender like how long they worked there and education"

Feminist :"Stop mansplaining you insensitive imbecile"

A Man: "That discussion would have been much more positive if you didn't tried femshaming me."
Femshaming by Tailrow October 11, 2017

Femscaping 

The art or act of female personal grooming.
Me: Yo G what's doin today?
G: Just going to do a bit of femscaping
Me: Full brazilian or landing strip?
G:I'm not a twelve year old child...
Femscaping by Che Guvara February 24, 2011

femflaming 

Pronounced fem-flame-ing. A form of sexist verbal misandry.

When a woman uses a continuous barrage of marginalizing, contemptuous or defamatory language while addressing a male.

She may use this strident, sexist mode of speech as a sign of her general disrespect or hatred for men, their ideas or thoughts, or she may be going out of her way to attack a certain male.
That bitch spent ten minutes femflaming me for asking what time it was.
femflaming by M. Slate May 18, 2018

Fehaming his Mail 

Action describing someone that touches himself as he cant attract human beings from the opposite gender
He was horny, he ended up fehaming his Mail
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