A stereotype in West that chinese and asian women are docile, fragile and submissive to men. They are seen as typical girly girl and ideal wives. This stereotype is not always true beacuse chinese and some other asian women are known to dominate their boyfriends and husbands and in rare cases miserably treat them but when it comes to white men they are known to behave like china doll due to pinkerton syndrome in order to impress white men.
Cho chang is acts like a china doll and behaves like sarong party girl in front of white men.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.