cat seat 

Being in control. Calling the shots. Being the decider.

1. Erika finally came to the conclusion that Jonathan had his chance at making the decisions in the relationship. From now on, she would take the cat seat.
2. - "Hey dude, what a mess this thing with Syria has become."
- "No kidding! And Obama, what was he thinking? Giving up the cat seat only to have Putin take it over!"

cat seat by golliath September 20, 2013

fat cat seat 

Overly cushy, large, fancy seat designed for the backside of a wanna-be big shot, often replacing a typical seat regular people sit in.

Even when the regular ballpark seats are filled with fans, many of the big blue padded fat cat seats behind home plate at Yankee Stadium stay empty because of unreasonably high ticket prices.

fat cat seat by Charleyslove August 26, 2017

cat-bird seat

When there is a person who is the position to play mind games with another.

Candy was in the cat-bitd seat when she got a dip on the side afterher man got caught wiht that hoe.

cat-bird seat by Zo May 21, 2005

Catseat 

Someone on discord :)

Catseat gifted me Discord Nitro

Catseat by catseat March 26, 2021