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BayFlay, alternatively BaFla, is a portmanteau for "Bay Area Flakiness" or "Bay Area Flaking". It refers to the prevalence of flaking (not showing up, cancelling at the last minute), especially on dates, which is rampant in the San Francisco Bay Area in the age of dating apps and online meet-ups. It was coined by Bryan Lopuck at Quizlet and its usage in the Bay Area has spread.
He said he was totally down for meeting, but didn't show up. Total case of BayFlay.
I'm setting up at least two Tinder dates for tonight, because, you know, BayFlay.
I waited for 20 minutes and she didn't even text. Total case of BayFlay.
bayflay by SurfSide6 May 14, 2018
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A baylay is someone who is beyond beautiful inside and out. Someone who is smarter than anyone you'll ever meet. Someone who has a wonderful smile & cute cheeks that you'd want to poke. A baylay is also someone who is mean & rude & fat & ugly & smelly but you'd still love her more than anything in the world. Lastly, a baylay is the best girlfriend a guy could ever have; she's a perfect person in general.
Hey, that girl has a wonderful personality & great looks, she must be a baylay.

She is so mean & rude but still lovable, she's a total baylay.
Baylay by Ugly :] April 28, 2011
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