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BayFlay, alternatively BaFla, is a portmanteau for "Bay Area Flakiness" or "Bay Area Flaking". It refers to the prevalence of flaking (not showing up, cancelling at the last minute), especially on dates, which is rampant in the San Francisco Bay Area in the age of dating apps and online meet-ups. It was coined by Bryan Lopuck at Quizlet and its usage in the Bay Area has spread.
He said he was totally down for meeting, but didn't show up. Total case of BayFlay.
I'm setting up at least two Tinder dates for tonight, because, you know, BayFlay.
I waited for 20 minutes and she didn't even text. Total case of BayFlay.
bayflay by SurfSide6 May 14, 2018
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A baylay is someone who is beyond beautiful inside and out. Someone who is smarter than anyone you'll ever meet. Someone who has a wonderful smile & cute cheeks that you'd want to poke. A baylay is also someone who is mean & rude & fat & ugly & smelly but you'd still love her more than anything in the world. Lastly, a baylay is the best girlfriend a guy could ever have; she's a perfect person in general.
Hey, that girl has a wonderful personality & great looks, she must be a baylay.

She is so mean & rude but still lovable, she's a total baylay.
Baylay by Ugly :] April 28, 2011
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It is said of the situation where a person has the bad luck to make contact with his testicles against an undefined surface or object, intentioned or not.
Given the nature of the word, it is more appropriate to design cases where the interaction is made with a moving object, for example, a ball.
Although it is extremely painful for the victim, it tends to be considerably funny to people who witness it.
Today in the baseball game the pitcher took a nutshot; the baseball hit him in the nuts.

Man, I just watched the funniest nutshot video ever.
Nutshot by Uberflaven March 1, 2009
Word of the Day on June 26, 2026

Nerd neck 

A "human" that spends so much time playing video games that their posture is level nerd neck. Everytime anyone goes tryhard they hunch down and their neck gets longer there fore a nerd neck is always hunched down cause they're always going try hard. In other words a nerd neck is a try hard, since their neck is 100% longer than the average human being due to playing too many video games and taking them serious, nerd necks are not even considered human anymore but something more sad. Nerd necks are often found on fortnite, their natural habitat usually being tilted towers.
What a fucking nerd neck!

He is building so fast, nerd neck!

Looser more like a nerd neck ha!
Nerd neck by D Sandwich Maker February 5, 2019
Word of the Day on June 25, 2026

love peace and chicken grease 

"another of sayin peace out or good bye"
Talk to ya later......Love, Peace, and Chicken Grease
Word of the Day on June 24, 2026
slip of the tongue perhaps,
Those idiots who drive around in a ridiculously raised pick up truck, making a top heavy vehicle even more top heavy and unstable
A:*gah*
B: "Whats the matter"
A: This dam prickup is blinding me.
B: Stupid thing's, as if there lights weren't blinding enough as it is.
prickup by lunasea September 28, 2009
Word of the Day on June 23, 2026

Serial Monogamist 

Someone who jumps from one relationship immediately into another one.

Serial monogamists can not stand to be alone and often suffer from vast commitment and insecurity issues.

Because they jump into relationships immediately after the previous one has ended, serial monogamists typically don't take the time to reflect on their behavior or why their previous relationships failed; thus, they end up making the same relationship mistakes over and over again.
Person 1: Damn, Dustin already has a new girlfriend?! It's only been two weeks since he broke up with his fiance! I think he's a sociopath.

Person 2: No, he's a serial monogamist...
Word of the Day on June 22, 2026