Mentality of submissive or empathetically biased men (usually simps, fuckboy/pickupers/incels, whiteknights) - self-validating with, being proud of, dependent on and excessively worrying about female attention & perception of them, their own 'body count' & desirability, as well as societal validation from it (regardless of the type of relationship he's having, or his position in it).
Implies the guy has close to none filter (would sex any woman that offers) - directly proportional to it.
It's their life purpose/goal/prize, as well as their intrusive biased projections onto other men (empathy bias also prevents them from thinking otherwise).
They're often projecting this mentality at others - assuming others also have vaglidation goals - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
Implies the guy has close to none filter (would sex any woman that offers) - directly proportional to it.
It's their life purpose/goal/prize, as well as their intrusive biased projections onto other men (empathy bias also prevents them from thinking otherwise).
They're often projecting this mentality at others - assuming others also have vaglidation goals - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
by veinsofgold November 20, 2024
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Some people love social media to stayed connected, but you can tell when someone's life is so lacking life that they're just on for empty validation.
by Summerbees October 27, 2011
Get the Empty Validation mug.feeling achieved or appreciated when receiving praise in school. while it can be a good motivator, constantly seeking academic validation can become a problem mentally. this can lead to purposefully overworking yourself to feel that adrenaline rush that comes with good marks.
Mom: Why are your grades so bad?
Me: Because I seek academic validation to the point where if I can't do it perfectly the first time then there's no use in trying at all.
Me: Because I seek academic validation to the point where if I can't do it perfectly the first time then there's no use in trying at all.
by hermione.granger.tf December 9, 2021
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'Yea we won!"
"No the Steelers won. You just watched the game on TV."
"Same thing."
"No It's not, it's your validation by proxy."
"No the Steelers won. You just watched the game on TV."
"Same thing."
"No It's not, it's your validation by proxy."
by Cirdellin January 17, 2010
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by urwhore April 11, 2021
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I am going to vagisate Phil on Wednesday night to make up for crashing his truck.
I am going to vagisate Phil on Wednesday night to make up for crashing his truck.
by Sofi June 20, 2006
Get the vagisation mug.Describes an action that is seeking external approval from others; typically to solve some deep-rooted childhood trauma.
That girl is exhibiting validation seeking behavior by posting half-naked selfies on Instagram all day.
by iMonkeyBIZ February 9, 2020
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