A passive top may prefer the bottom to be astride him and/ or in control of the pace of things. Importantly, the top isn't always in control of the action. The terms active/passive often have to do with how power and control are managed - on many levels - in a particular sexual interaction
Passive Top
A sexual identity where a gay male who typically identifies and performs as a top will allow to be penile penetrated by a dominant top, or by pegging, or by sex toys (dildos). A passive top will also allow to be penetrated while simultaneously penile penetrating (a male, female). Passive tops can also be considered “verse” or versatile but the term is more fitting for a male who is always a top unless there is a total “dom” top involved.
A sexual identity where a gay male who typically identifies and performs as a top will allow to be penile penetrated by a dominant top, or by pegging, or by sex toys (dildos). A passive top will also allow to be penetrated while simultaneously penile penetrating (a male, female). Passive tops can also be considered “verse” or versatile but the term is more fitting for a male who is always a top unless there is a total “dom” top involved.
by BlueRocker22 December 25, 2021
Dave was ok at first until I found out he was a passive top. He just lay there while I did the worm.
by Lil ant with the big dick September 27, 2018