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Greygender (graygender): a person who identifies as (at least partially) outside the gender binary and has a strong natural ambivalence about their gender identity or gender expression. They feel they have a gender(s), as well as a natural inclination or desire to express it, but it’s weak and/or somewhat indeterminate/indefinable, or they don’t feel it most of the time, or they’re just not that invested in it. They’re not entirely without a gender or gender expression, but they’re not entirely “with” it either, so to speak. The term was coined by tumblr user invernom.
I'm greygender. My experience of gender is weak and I'm not very invested in it.
by cathycthulhu March 12, 2015
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When all your friends pick up cool made up gender names and you want to come up with something unique.
- Hey, I identify as a pumpkingender
- oh! I identify as a greygender! That sounds cooler than you, loser!
by elsaabka June 22, 2018
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