Flame and tame - Verb - term used to describe the "move" in which a suiter invites a prospective bang maiden to their humble abode under the guise of cooking them dinner (Flame, as in using the stove to prepare your famous beef stroganoff). This dinner is then parlayed into into an all expenses paid trip to pound town (tame, as in taming strange).
In practice: Bro, you hooked up with Bernice last night?! How tf did that happen?

Dawg, I told her my grandmothers empanada recipe is the best there is. When she came over to try them, I executed a seamless flame and tame.

The flame and tame! Fucking classic!
by DaddyJagweedXOXO69 September 25, 2022
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