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Female expatriate, usually of the Western variety, living abroad who tend to develop a collective hostility and feminist-like bitterness towards their male Caucasian counterparts for dating ethnic local girls instead of a fellow female Caucasian expat.

The term "fempat" is a neologism attributable to, and first discussed on record, by author Tom Carter during a Business Insider interview about his controversial expatriate anthology Unsavory Elements: "I think fem-pats refers to those angry, lonely, single female expats in China who are overlooked by Western males seeking Chinese girlfriends..."
The Time Out review of Unsavory Elements was overrun by a clique of fempats who, not even having read the book, knee-jerkingly called for Tom Carter's “arrest and deportation from China” because, they believed, he patronized an underage prostitute.
Fempat by 洋鬼子 March 3, 2015
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femmatic 

A female + fanatic / Evolving from over-the-top female sports fanatics - now just depicts passionate women who can pulloff both unique feminine style and can enjoy rugged, often sporty things (rock climbing, dancing, chasing Jonas Brothers, etc).

Femmatic women are the fantasies of many men.

Not to be confused with fangirl. Femmatics tend to be looked up to, trendy women who simply surprise people with their borderline crazy passion about a team or smtg in particular (hence the sophisticated and French double "m"). It is a term of endearment.
at the office Unattractive David Spade: "Hold on, is that a Steelers logo on your cheek?"
rolling her eyes Hot, stylish Adriana Lima: "Uhh.. yyeah.."
hesitant Unattractive David Spade: "I had no idea you were a Steeler femmatic! Wa-wanna..go out?
not hesitant Hot, stylish Adriana Lima: "Nope".
femmatic by tarheeler July 17, 2009
Related Words
A girl's six pack.

"Whoa, that Pixie Lott has a fempack like granite"
"Whoa, that Pixie Lott has a fempack like granite"
fempack by Gregory Manly Mason April 27, 2015

FEMAtized 

alt. spelling "fematized"

1. (of people) Traumatized by dealings with FEMA (the Federal Emergency Management Agency) after a natural disaster.
2. (of government agencies) Made impotent or useless.
3. (of houses or other buildings) Demolished by FEMA.
(heard on "All Things Considered," National Public Radio, 27 Feb 2006)
"Man, my whole neighborhood been FEMAtized, man!"

"Shit, man, whole damn government been FEMAtized!"
FEMAtized by Skip Mendler April 12, 2006

fempathy 

when a superior (usually female) pretends empathy to an underlings ideas or concerns but intends to ignore them
As the employees listened to the empty fempathy of the HR director, they became nauseous.
fempathy by Weurdschmidt January 19, 2019
When something is full but at the same time empty. For example a fridge full of ingredients but you don’t know how to cook.
“Hey Khyanne have you got anything I can eat?”

“No sorry my fridge is fempty.”
Fempty by The almighty Khyanne July 30, 2022

Fempotazis 

Radical feminists whose personality reflects that of a potatoes. And often their figure too
Those people commenting online where fempotazis
Fempotazis by Ani Wonder January 15, 2020
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1. Meaning nasty, sexy, filthy. Popularized by Christina Aguilera.

2. Used usally as a close friend in hip-hop slang.
1. Wanna get dirrty
It's about time that I came to start the party Sweat drippin' over my body
Dancin' gettin' just a little naughty

2. Sup Dirrty? Haven't seen you in a while.
dirrty by Minty November 30, 2003
Word of the Day on September 3, 2026

Coyote Ugly

1. Place

The Bar came before the movie. It is an awesome bar where the girls know how to party and make you feel okay about giving up your money, drawers, bras, and dignity.

2. Movie

A story about a Jersey girl following her dreams, aided by working at this bar in New York.

3. Situation/Person/Decision

See other definitions - waking up next to someone so ugly you'd rather chew your arm off than wake them up.
1. Yo, Coyote Ugly is my favorite bar! I got whipped, stripped, drunk, and danced on the bar all before 7 o'clock!

2. Hey did you see Coyote Ugly? It actually has a plot!

3. Ugg I woke up to Coyote Ugly this morning!
Coyote Ugly by jerseycountry March 8, 2009
Word of the Day on September 2, 2026

Literally 1984 

Used in response for when someone promotes/advocates an event or idea that is perceived to support "too much" authority and/or government control.

Often used jokingly as a over-exaggeration in political talk.

Can also be used in response to a ban or mute in a forum site or online chat.
Steve: I think that the government should regulate businesses more
Bob: Literally 1984!

--User1 has been permantly banned--
User2: You cant ban my friend like that! Literally 1984!
Literally 1984 by ke1 July 7, 2021
Word of the Day on September 1, 2026

Back when I lived in upstate new york 

A meaningless, unimpressive, self-serving introduction. An indicator that the story about to be shared will be pointless and dumb.
Back when I lived in upstate new york, I also had to park on the street - on two occasions, we got enough snow, mixed with just the right plowing, that my car was lifted off the ground from so much snow being jammed underneath it.
Word of the Day on August 31, 2026
Acronym, meaning Too Long Didn't Understand
Similar to TLDR
Sister: This meeting was to discuss the rough draft of my essay, where we discussed the subsidiary questions I added in my rough draft. We also discussed the relationship between my main title and the real-life situations I chose to use in my essay. We discussed the structure of my essay as well, specifically the Math AOK section and how it relates to the contradiction of the title. This second meeting was particularly helpful in discussing the implications of my essay claims and how to apply the title across various areas of knowledge. There were many sections of the essay that could have been cut down in wordiness and the ways of knowing required further and more in-depth analysis.

Me: Woah! TLDU!
TLDU by L-Evans January 14, 2019
Word of the Day on August 30, 2026
the act of having anonymous sexual encounters with other men in public toilets.
Cottaging by greeef April 24, 2003
Word of the Day on August 29, 2026
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