A pick me girl is a insecure girl who claims they are always "one of the guys" and insults other women around their "crush". (basically any girl called Ava or Ren or Jay)
Pick me girl - "Oh my god, you saw what layla posted yesterday about her dog dying and how she "doesn't want anyone to talk to her about it"? She is so looking for attention from luke. I know exactly what lukes type is because I'm one of the guys."
Deadass example based on some shit I actually heard irl 😭
Deadass example based on some shit I actually heard irl 😭
by L_lytorres January 05, 2023
A girl who seeks validation from men. They often act different around men than they do girls, their catch phrases could be something like: "I'm not like other girls, I don't like dresses, don't wear makeup and I AM NOT dramatic!" or "I'm not like other girls, I hang out with boys/men because their less problematic!" etc. Some say things like: "OMG, I'm SOOO tiny compared to you, STOOPPPP ITTTT!". There are 2 types of pick me girls, one who acts like a girly girl and refers as a small person compared to the guy she's talking to, or the tomboy-ish one who seeks men validation by 'acting like one of the boys' when she's clearly not.
Example 1:
Normal Girl: Ugh, I was up all night trying to find a good makeup look for the party and-
Pick Me Girl: Oh, really?! Could never be me, I don't wear makeup, I'm too natural and definitely not a 'try hard' so that's why I don't wear that stuff.
Normal Girl: Umm...Okay.
Example 2:
*Talking To A Guy*
Pick Me Girl: OMG! STOOOPP! You know I'm tinier than you so stop bullying me, owy...omg, look at how tiny my hands are compared to yours, let's do a hand comparison-
Guy: Yeah, NO. Let's not do that, in fact, let's not talk at all-
Normal Girl: Ugh, I was up all night trying to find a good makeup look for the party and-
Pick Me Girl: Oh, really?! Could never be me, I don't wear makeup, I'm too natural and definitely not a 'try hard' so that's why I don't wear that stuff.
Normal Girl: Umm...Okay.
Example 2:
*Talking To A Guy*
Pick Me Girl: OMG! STOOOPP! You know I'm tinier than you so stop bullying me, owy...omg, look at how tiny my hands are compared to yours, let's do a hand comparison-
Guy: Yeah, NO. Let's not do that, in fact, let's not talk at all-
by TylerTheCreator2.0 February 14, 2022
An insult aimed at any woman that doesn't mindlessly follow feminist dogma. It can also be used by feminists as a generic insult towards any woman they don't personally like, regardless of the political ideology of the woman being insulted. It is similar to "incel" or "nazi" by which it's meant to undermine any counter made to progressive rhetoric by labelling the critic something negative instead of actually engaging with the argument in good faith.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Eg. 1:
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
by mel999 April 06, 2023
A girl who is the opposite of the Imposter Syndrome Girl.
A Pick Me Girl feels no need to self-sabotage when blessings come her way. She is full of gratitude. She sees the excitement and beauty in each situation in life. And is not afraid to be selfish for such exciting and beautiful things.
Childlike, bold, go-getting, and full of self-love, she gleefully squeals “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Over and over again
That is why she is called a Pick Me Girl
A Pick Me Girl feels no need to self-sabotage when blessings come her way. She is full of gratitude. She sees the excitement and beauty in each situation in life. And is not afraid to be selfish for such exciting and beautiful things.
Childlike, bold, go-getting, and full of self-love, she gleefully squeals “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Over and over again
That is why she is called a Pick Me Girl
July 31 - It is Maria’s 5th birthday party. Her and her 5 friends are sitting on the living room carpet - Maria, Stephanie, Alyssa, Doug, Jack, Lindsey.
Maria’s mother ties a pastel blue balloon animal in the shape of a dog.
Maria’s mother: “Who wants this one—-?”
Stephanie: “Pick meeeeeEEEEEEE!!!!!”
Maria’s mother: “oh Stephanie! You are such a Pick Me girl!”
Example 2:
Karina: “Hey Julie, I have my first client as a Psychedelic Guide on Tuesday. I’m feeling imposter syndrome”
Julie: “it’s normal to feel this way. Just remember the phrase Pick Me Girl.”
Karina: “Oh yeah!!!”
Maria’s mother ties a pastel blue balloon animal in the shape of a dog.
Maria’s mother: “Who wants this one—-?”
Stephanie: “Pick meeeeeEEEEEEE!!!!!”
Maria’s mother: “oh Stephanie! You are such a Pick Me girl!”
Example 2:
Karina: “Hey Julie, I have my first client as a Psychedelic Guide on Tuesday. I’m feeling imposter syndrome”
Julie: “it’s normal to feel this way. Just remember the phrase Pick Me Girl.”
Karina: “Oh yeah!!!”
by Steph-Steph December 27, 2022
A woman who seeks male, or general validation by crying, making a scene, or just trying to be different.
Lynx from FN wiki
Lynx from FN wiki
by Hahaha41641 December 20, 2022
A pick-me girl is a girl who seeks male validation by indirectly or directly insinuating that she is “not like the other girls.” Basically a female version of a simp. Characteristics of a pick-me girl: lets men walk all over her because of her “CaReFrEE” demeanor, only hangs out with men because they’re “unproblematic”, exerts qualities/characteristics of her male counterparts that were not initially present to be more likable and relatable to them, etc.
Ex. 1:
Pick-me girl to her ONE girl acquaintance: “Yeah, I just have sOoo many guy friends because they’re so chill and not catty like literally every girl is lol!!”
Ex. 2:
Pick me girl: *Just starts skating because she sees all the cute skater boys on TikTok doing it*
*May or may not post all over social media her one good run boarding/holding her board like she didn’t just start skating yesterday*
Pick-me girl to her ONE girl acquaintance: “Yeah, I just have sOoo many guy friends because they’re so chill and not catty like literally every girl is lol!!”
Ex. 2:
Pick me girl: *Just starts skating because she sees all the cute skater boys on TikTok doing it*
*May or may not post all over social media her one good run boarding/holding her board like she didn’t just start skating yesterday*
by Qtpie45 June 14, 2020
The meaning of a “Pick-me girl” is a person who tries to be ‘different’ to impress men, Pick-me girls will constantly seek attention from males. Beware of them..
by I like dinosaurs 🦖 March 04, 2022