Sex that is not Brown, Red, Yellow or Black. i.e. masturbation, oral, 69, frottage only, definitely NOT anal. From the fact that both vanilla ice cream & spunk are white. Originating in the gay scene, especially by wearers of coloured handkerchiefs which indicated visually what they were into. Now debased by other MSM as 'normal' or not kinky.
by Kerkyra February 16, 2021

by anonymous November 13, 2020

person who has vanilla sex, typically involves sex which does not include elements of BDSM, kink, or fetishism.
by bigfriendlynigga December 27, 2019

by Hagbbsfgbcfgbvghhv October 19, 2023
