A combination of Flip-Flops and Sandals. Flip Flops with an ankle strap. Ugly anyway, but even worse when seen on males. In which case, they become 'Man Flandals'.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.