thurstie_with_a_k's definitions

Dickmatized

When a woman, (usually later in life and/or after having more sexual experiences/partners), finally enjoys herself sexually and becomes obsessed/emotionally entangled with the specific man she enjoyed herself with the most, unable to separate the physical from emotional. Generally only affects pick-me's, and actually creates more severe pick-me behavior.

When women's sexual freedom is stigmatized, men are able to dickmatize them.

Thanks patriarchy!

"Forgive me, it sounds cocky
He dickmatized me and opened my eyes
Redwood tree, it ain't hard to see
His love was the key that opened my thighs"

-Wood by Taylor Swift

by thurstie_with_a_k November 9, 2025

Kurstie

A courageous woman with a mind so expansive she can think herself into different realities, and emotions so deep they sometimes overwhelm even her — but they’re always genuine. She’s a summer thunderstorm: lightning-bright wit, thunderous intensity, and the kind of downpour that leaves you raw but refreshed. She’ll zap you with her honesty, then sit you down with a cozy cup of tea to laugh about it. She’s unshakably herself, choosing what’s right even when it’s hard, and charging into challenges no matter how scary they look. Stick with her through the storm, and you’ll get the rainbow — a fiercely loyal heart, a leader’s insight, and a love that’s as rare as it is unforgettable.

Person: "Who's that??"

Cool person: "Oh that's Kurstie, it rhymes with 'thirsty'.. yeah, it's an acquired taste."

by thurstie_with_a_k September 29, 2025