dijjn's definitions
queer: Originally pejorative for gay, now being reclaimed by some gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered persons as a self-affirming umbrella term. Caution: still extremely offensive when used as an epithet.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the queermug. A person of any above description who is more passive in a sexual situation. Allows the other person to set the tone/method of sex. May or may not include S & M, fantasy role play or fetishes. If it does include S & M, the bottom will be the receptor of bondage & pain play and will be the server of the top.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the bottommug. pink triangle: Now a gay pride symbol, it was the insignia homosexual men were required to wear in Nazi concentration camps.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the pink trianglemug. is the term used by lesbians, gay men and bisexuals to describe their experience of self discovery, self-acceptance, openness and honesty about their sexual orientation and their decision to share this with others when and how they choose.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the coming outmug. A person of any above description who "takes the lead" or is dominant in sexual situation. May or may not include S & M, fantasy role play or fetishes or servitude. May or may not want to be touched. Will initiate sex. If includes S & M, the top will be the one to do the bondage & pain play etc. to the bottom.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the topmug. Internalized Oppression
the process by which a member of an oppressed group comes to accept and live out the inaccurate myths and stereotypes applied to the group.
the process by which a member of an oppressed group comes to accept and live out the inaccurate myths and stereotypes applied to the group.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the internalized oppressionmug. A lesbian who expresses the cultural norm for ultra-femininity - makeup, dresses, heels, hair, nails.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
Get the high femmemug.