Definitions by Tom Barnes

bum up

Pretty much the same as 'Sucking Up' to someone, except based around the action of giving somebody anal sex.

"I can believe you bum up to him just because he has a nice car."
"Dave's bumming up to Celebrities again."

bum up by Tom Barnes February 14, 2008

Emotional blackmail 

A form of blackmail that usually doesn't affect you directly, however makes you feel guilty if you do not do what the blackmailer wants.

Emotional blackmail often happens when someone refuses to be the blackmailer's boyfriend/girlfriend.

Emotional Blackmail often consists of crying, cutting themselves, or even as far as threatening to commit suicide.

Emotional blackmail by Tom Barnes May 21, 2006