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Cocktease

Someone who teases a man, often in BDSM context, as a form of torture. A cocktease will tease and excite said man to gain sexual gratification from denying him sex or orgasm, it is common in Dom/sub and Owner/owned dynamics within BDSM. Some examples of ways a cocktease could sexually excite a partner are: Backing it up on him, grinding on him, whispering exciting things in his ear; touching and teasing him with your hand or finger, or in general indicating that you want to have sex with him, or bring him to orgasm, with no intentions of actually doing anything to ease him just yet. (Keep in mind that not every, or any person involved, has to be cisgender. Please be inclusive!)

Man 1: My master is such a total cocktease!

Man 2: (master's name?) Yeah, he is brutal. I heard from Chad he'll tease you till you cry

by Men4321 May 20, 2025