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Something that looks like fun or beneficial at first but interferes with other more important matters in the future.
Having sex with your friends girlfriend is definitely a crucial conflict.

Having sex with someone who has an STD , is also a crucial conflict
by Black wisdom November 13, 2017
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Disingenuous motivation, in which the motivator tries to convince the motivatee that they can do something that eternal or external factors won't allow.

The"fumes" come into play when the motivated party begins to believe and act on the motivators hype.

In most cases this technique is used to manipulate someone into ether making a fool out themselves, or inducing a since of loyalty by encouraging ego driven megalomania.

On occasion the motivator me be so convincing that he induces a adrenaline rush within the motivatee. These often temporary effects may cause the motivatee to uncover hidden talents, and enable them to complete a seemingly impossible tasks.

However,in other situations it my force the motivatee to recognize the harsh reality of the situation. In most cases, this happen during the try and the fail stage of the motivatee's ego driven efforts.

This is a great technique for bait n' switch confidence scams.

The term "Gassed Up" is in the Urban Ego family and has a working relationship with terms such as " The Vapors" (See Biz Markie - Greatest Hits album).

To avoid such a situation secure your ego with research, connections, and a applicable skill base.





I watch "American Idol" because its funny to see people so "Gassed Up".

by Black wisdom January 26, 2009
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When a manipulator tries to befriend under false pretense with the intention of using your personal information against you.

A false friendship, in which someone tries to get closer to you in order to steal from, embarrass, or ruin you.
We picked his brain and he never realized he was being "Played Close".

Ex. 1

"Keep your friends close and your enemies closer".

Active Verbal Description:

see Ludacris Lyrics for the song "Roll Out".

by Black wisdom January 22, 2009
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