it's suppose to mean family before anything else; however many people say the phrase and don't really mean it since they would pick their friends over their sister/brother or cousins.
person 1: hey cuz wanna go to the movies?
person 2: um........ u gon on without me i wanna chill with my friends
person 1: hey cuz i really don't like one of your freinds, she was being a bitch
person 2: omg how could u say that about my friend, she is such a goood person, u probaly pissed her off or something.
something that is felt by emotional people. Feelings are for soft people.
person 1: damn nigga your breath stinks
person 2: why would you say that, you're hurting my feelings