Angorist

A person who likes to consensually experience pain or be restrained, but does not correlate either with sex.
Person A: Isnโ€™t your girlfriend a major masochist?

Person B: Actually, she doesnโ€™t like pain to be mixed with lovemaking. Sheโ€™s an angorist.
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Vulnerist

A person who enjoys consensually inflicting pain on another, but does not correlate either with the act of sex.
Person A: Iโ€™m really sadistic, but I donโ€™t really want to have sex any time soon.

Person B: Then I think that would make you a vulnerist.
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