the gay sexual act of shoving sand in another man's asscrack and/or anus
"I went to the beach with my boyfriend yesterday and shanded him super hard."

"On his profile he said he was into shanding, but I've never done it before!"

"Oh yeah, I'm gonna shand you so hard, baby"
by jonked July 21, 2022
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To Shand is to hug/cuddle with someone or something
Person one: look at Cameron, he's shanding with his girlfriend
by Panda Priestess May 27, 2022
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The most artistic bitchiest bitch you'll ever meet. You'll often find them with your mom
Girl: Wow he's such a bitch
Other girl: yeah! That's shande
by Nez20 May 22, 2019
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