A person with a tough or stern exterior but a secret heart of gold, such as a lenient authority figure.
You're an old softy, letting those kids off the hook like that.
by other findings include December 08, 2013
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A man who has been worn down physicaly and mentaly by a old carp snatch of a wife. This man also has lost the will to obtain an erection.
That man is beyond "P" whipped! He is an old softy....
by timbone666 January 17, 2012