A gay person that:

1. Is very open about their sexual orientation.

2. Feels the need to talk, act and sometimes dress as the opposite sex

3. Feels the need to mention their sexual orientation and/or exploits in every conversation
That cockrider is a fuckin' flamer!
by R. Kemp February 28, 2004
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Flamer, a very open, usually obvious homosexual person. (Usually male.) A term used in the place of the word "gay", "fag", or "queer". The word is also usually meant as a joke.
Joey: "I like the color pink..."
Tom: "Dude, you're a fucking flamer..."
by Tom. :D June 21, 2009
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1. Very obvious homosexual.
2. Internet debaters (retards).
1. Every character in Top Gun.
2. Flamers likes to make no sense in their arguments.
by Cindermints January 22, 2009
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flamer(1)- a person who smokes large amounts of weed or does any kind of drugs at one time.

flamer(2)-a very VERY gay person.

flamer(3)-pothead.
(1)"man, you wanna go FLAME it up tonight?, ca'mon lets go be flamer of the year."

(2)"dude, look at that guy rubbing up on that dude, whata flamer."

(3)"whata flamer."
by BRCS flamer October 2, 2009
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a man who puts on a button-down, pink shirt with three buttons undone, torn jeans from abercrombie, flip flops, silk underwear and mousse in his hair and then heads out and cries to a barbra streisand musical, after which he goes to starbucks, where he orders a cappuccino, which he enjoys while reading an article in "vogue" about how to please your man. after all this, the "man" goes to the gap for some shopping and then heads out for a manicure and hair appointment.
the damn flamer couldn't stop talking about clothing materials, so i showed him the newest playboy and he quickly dissapeared
by clevelandsteamer September 5, 2005
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A word used in history to direct a insult at a gay person for the choice they made in their sexuality.

It is now presently used for a person who is so outright loud, obnoxious, idiotic, controversial, disgraceful, pathetic, freakish, drama played, clueless, drag fairy, premature ejaculation, that uses being gay as a crutch to get close to the apposite sex as a "pity party manner" in certain situations.

That even gays are disgusted by such atrocity walking around on the planet.. giving them a bad reputation.

Freak
Lurking
Around
Munging
Everyones
Rectum
Chris Crocker is one of the worlds biggest Flamer..
by Helloagainmynameissir July 23, 2010
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