Negativity is an infestation on urban dictionary
by Ucuntu and that faggot penguin December 4, 2019
Negativity doesn't exist- it isn't a law, or a rule. In fact, Negativity is such an underrated word. Its brother, positivity, isn't real either. Negativity has already been harassed as a word and been given meanings it doesn't deserve, because, as I said, negativity doesn't exist. Negativity is reality.
Example: You're in a sports game, it can be any sport. You're a tiny insignificant kid like me and you're playing against massive men who look like The Rock. Thinking positively, like those foolish optimists, will only made the pounding you are about to get more painful. Thinking, "I am gonna lose and get my ass whipped" will be considered negative thinking, but once again, negativity is reality.
Thinking realistically is going to get you more far than positivity will ever get you. Negativity is already considered a bad thing, when all it is is something else. Now, of course you've never heard this. I bet more than anything you're a teenager, like me, and us teenagers should know that this optimistic bullshit is, well, bullshit. Adults don't tell kids and teenagers that only because adults don't accept the truth. Sure, they want to "protect" their kids, and I understand for children, but teenagers deserve knowing the Truth. Teenagers spend their childhood following the steps of their surroundings, their friends, their family. For most, their childhood is spent obediently doing everything that your parents say.
Example: You're in a sports game, it can be any sport. You're a tiny insignificant kid like me and you're playing against massive men who look like The Rock. Thinking positively, like those foolish optimists, will only made the pounding you are about to get more painful. Thinking, "I am gonna lose and get my ass whipped" will be considered negative thinking, but once again, negativity is reality.
Thinking realistically is going to get you more far than positivity will ever get you. Negativity is already considered a bad thing, when all it is is something else. Now, of course you've never heard this. I bet more than anything you're a teenager, like me, and us teenagers should know that this optimistic bullshit is, well, bullshit. Adults don't tell kids and teenagers that only because adults don't accept the truth. Sure, they want to "protect" their kids, and I understand for children, but teenagers deserve knowing the Truth. Teenagers spend their childhood following the steps of their surroundings, their friends, their family. For most, their childhood is spent obediently doing everything that your parents say.
Once we become teenagers, despite what every adult in existence says, we see the world more openly. We want to go down our own path. We become more independent. We want to explore the world in all its glory. But unfortunately, it doesn't work that way, which is why positivity doesn't exist. The world doesn't work that way. That's why positivity doesn't exist.
And for the moms reading this, go ahead, dislike this definition, and keep denying the truth. Denying that truth will only make you live with a weight on your shoulders that will crush you and make you live with regret. Living in that kind of denial is worse than what the foolish optimists say living "negatively" is.
So when we go through our teenage years, we are exposed to this reality, because we can see it. Because us teenagers think realistically, we are seen as monsters. A species of human, ungrateful brats, and pessimistic are just some of the names I've heard teens being called. Surprisingly, the teen years are where we are supposed to be thinking the most positively towards life, but our parents make it hard. Mind you, I'm not criticizing parents or their tactics. In fact, they aren't doing it on purpose, it's just that some of the things they do makes teenagers more depressed, and they just don't see that. Parents still see their teenagers as the little angels we were when we were little, clueless, doing everything their parents say, becoming robots.
Negativity
And for the moms reading this, go ahead, dislike this definition, and keep denying the truth. Denying that truth will only make you live with a weight on your shoulders that will crush you and make you live with regret. Living in that kind of denial is worse than what the foolish optimists say living "negatively" is.
So when we go through our teenage years, we are exposed to this reality, because we can see it. Because us teenagers think realistically, we are seen as monsters. A species of human, ungrateful brats, and pessimistic are just some of the names I've heard teens being called. Surprisingly, the teen years are where we are supposed to be thinking the most positively towards life, but our parents make it hard. Mind you, I'm not criticizing parents or their tactics. In fact, they aren't doing it on purpose, it's just that some of the things they do makes teenagers more depressed, and they just don't see that. Parents still see their teenagers as the little angels we were when we were little, clueless, doing everything their parents say, becoming robots.
Negativity
by an existant of this planet January 20, 2021
by Dagsy Parr August 20, 2007
The act of insulting, deriding, or otherwise putting down of an individual or group by another in an attempt to shake, crack, and eventually crumble their inherent confidence and fortification of self.
Although commonly defined strictly as geared toward women by pickup artists, fuckbois and other douchebag types, the activity is universal in that it is implemented by and against people of all types, genders, etc and does not adhere to any one demographic.
Although commonly defined strictly as geared toward women by pickup artists, fuckbois and other douchebag types, the activity is universal in that it is implemented by and against people of all types, genders, etc and does not adhere to any one demographic.
Person 1: I don't get why people feel the need to put me down as soon as they look at me.
Person 2: They're Negging you. They probably see how you carry yourself and, based on internal insecurities that they refuse to acknowledge, arrive at the conclusion that you're too confident and need to be knocked down a peg.
Person 1: But I've never even met them before. And I'm not even as confident as I'd like to be.
Person 2: Doesn't matter if you are or not, you look it to them, that's what they perceive and hence that is what they are going to act on. Maybe stroke up a conversation with them and try to clear that up.
Person 2: They're Negging you. They probably see how you carry yourself and, based on internal insecurities that they refuse to acknowledge, arrive at the conclusion that you're too confident and need to be knocked down a peg.
Person 1: But I've never even met them before. And I'm not even as confident as I'd like to be.
Person 2: Doesn't matter if you are or not, you look it to them, that's what they perceive and hence that is what they are going to act on. Maybe stroke up a conversation with them and try to clear that up.
by 2kTriggerz December 14, 2020
Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances. This is something no decent guy would do. They say that the assholes get the girls, but I can spot negging a mile away and I reject these fuckers straight off.
Everywhere there is an insecure pretty girl, there is some guy negging.
Negging can be so subtle, it's pratically undetectable.
I was wondering why that guy was complimenting me while putting me down. He was negging of course.
Negging can be so subtle, it's pratically undetectable.
I was wondering why that guy was complimenting me while putting me down. He was negging of course.
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