mans that’s not my mans

Your man who is your man but not exactly. He’s your crush, but he might not know it.

Becky: OMG! Rachel is talking to drew! Doesn’t she know he is my mans that’s not my mans?!

by Eat her good May 12, 2018

mans that’s not my mans

Man that is not yet officially your man, but all the bitches/putas/hoes know he’s cuffed

Me *in bed looking at mans that’s not my mans insta* he better not be looking at shawnda’s ratchet ass finsta posts ~smh~

by Eat her good May 31, 2018

Man Who’s Not My Man

A man who you may or may not be involved with. Regardless of your relationship in real life, in your head, he’s yours. You can say “my man” and your friends know exactly who you’re talking about even though this man has no idea.

In some cases, this term can be used synonymously with “Situationship.”

Ally: My man just texted me.
Sam: You have a man?

Ally: I mean, he’s my man who’s not my man.
Sam: Ohhh, gotcha.

by Alyx $ky January 19, 2022

national my man but not my man day

january 15th is national my man but not my man day. it’s used to celebrate your man that’s not your man YETTT

“i love my man thats not my man”
“did you know its national my man but not my man day?”
“OMG FR?!? 😝”

by iluvinitialL April 15, 2023