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grueller 

A term referring to an extremely arduous episode or event such as being involved in a car crash or meeting your boyfriends/girlfriends parents. Believed to be derived from gruel the watery soup provided in workhouses during Dickensian times ie "please sir can I have some more gruel?".
Geoff had an a absolute fucking grueller when his foreskin got caught in the car door!
grueller by monkey boy February 4, 2005
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Grueller 

Someone who consistently sees the bad side of a situation and attracts a negative vibe to themselves
Marc's such a fucking grueller. He sits at his desk and moans and gruells all day.
Grueller by TheGrueller October 15, 2008

Grueller 

Lazy Customers who complain and want you to jump through hoops over the smallest things
"He was a complete grueller when he asked me to give him his floppy drive for free"
Grueller by Jack Custard October 15, 2008

grueller 

A loser who never has any funds and is always looking to bum from a friend. Also used as a term of affection amongst pot-smokers (who often don't have any money and bum bong hits from their friends).
Jefe you're such a grueller, I can't believe you sucked down the last of my buds!
grueller by Bard April 28, 2003
A person or couple (gruelers) who tries to push him/herself into a social scene that is beyond their status or out of their social norm - ending up taxing the whole party.

Also a person who tries too hard to be friends with a specific group of tight knit friends and does not fit in.
Justin: Yeah, I just got a new H2 after I got back from Whistler and it barely fits in the garage of my new 5 BR House in Stratville. You'd think they'd design garages bigger. You been to Jackson?

Regular: I've been out there, it's nice. Excuse me. (turning to regular chick) "what a freakin' grueler."
grueler by T.K.F. March 5, 2008

gruellerese 

A distinct American English dialect which uses a variety of code-words to denote forms of contraband. Also included are variants of normal words or phrases, mixed up for humorous effect.
That dude spoke true gruellerese when he mentioned how safe he was when he macked out at the Mood Fart.
gruellerese by Bard April 28, 2003
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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